5 things that don’t need to end your relationship

“Is it a deal breaker?”   5 relationship deal-breakers….. or perhaps not! A fresh perspective on 5 things we traditionally think lead to relationship breakdown At some time in our lives, just about all of us have asked ourselves the question immortalised by The Clash, “Should I stay, or should I go?” In this post…

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How can I improve my relationship without changing my partner?

Is it possible to improve your relationship without changing your partner? Absolutely. Let’s face it, unless you are changing relationships as often as you change underwear, there are going to be moments when everything in your relationships feels stuck. Stuck because of him. (For ease, I am speaking as though to a heterosexual woman, but…

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All I need is just a little patience

My old dog shows me on a daily basis why we need patience. When I am walking him to the front door for his morning walk, he gets ahead of me and puts his nose right up to where the door is about to open. He is so keen to go outside, that I can’t…

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Is he or isn’t he my soul mate?

Don’t let a belief in Soulmates lead you to negativity A client recently asked me if I believed in soul mates. “Yes!  I do.” I replied. But not in the same way I used to. When I first got together with my husband, I believed whole heartedly that I had found my soul mate. My…

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