Honey, this is why we are not being intimate

A letter to your husband with the reason we are not being intimate aka: having (much) sex. Read or listen below. Hello honey, I just wanted to write and let you know a few things that I have been pondering about our sex life. Firstly, I just wanted to acknowledge you. I know that our Read more


He pulls away when I want more

Whenever I ask for more affection, he pulls away from me. Does he actually care about me? Listen to the post below As far as the dance of intimacy goes, this relational pattern of push and pull is common. It goes something like this; You feel like you need more from your partner. More reassurance Read more


5 free relationship resources for when things are tense

Relationships are tricky things. They ebb and flow, things get tense, you can get stuck. I hope for you that all is going smoothly.  But if it is not, I have put together 5 of my free relationship resources to help shift you back into flow. 5 free relationship resources for when things are tense  Read more


Revive your sex life – get off the orgasm train

If you want to revive your sex life….forget about orgasm & get off the orgasm train. I had a revelation recently, it was that the western culture of sexuality really didn’t suit me. In fact, I am pretty sure it doesn’t suit a lot of us. What I am talking about is our sexual narrative Read more


The chasm between us

The chasm between us is a letter to your husband….. Read or listen via the link below. Babe, I want to talk to you, but I can’t find the words, so I am writing to you instead. I want you to know that I am thinking of you and us. I know that you may Read more


Clear out your relationship negativity

I get asked all the time, “How can I reconnect to my partner?” I love this question; in fact, I feel like this is the question on which all my work is based. Reconnecting was what I did with my partner several years ago when we were feeling disconnected and it is something, we continue Read more


He won’t go to counselling, what should I do?

Read the post, or listen via the link below. He won’t go to counselling, what should I do? This is a common tale in the realms of hetero-sexual relationships. The wife wants to go to couple counselling, but the husband does not. Can it be the other way around? Absolutely it can, but the man Read more


How to find YOU in your relationship

You can read this post or listen to it via the link below. “I feel lost in my marriage. I don’t even know who I am anymore!” This is a common cry from women in my relationship coaching office. Do you feel like YOU in your relationship? Like, really who you are? It can be Read more


Stop the anger. 3 ways to find more love in your relationship now.

Several years ago, I was stuck in a dark place in my marriage. Listen to the post below This darkness seeped out as anger – I would storm and bang around the house in a passive aggressive fury, without saying anything to my husband. It seeped out in my avoidance of intimacy – my libido Read more


Why am I a bitch to my husband?

Why am I such a bitch to the one I love?

You thought you were the only one who was a bitch to their husband? Sadly, or perhaps, reassuringly, that is not the case. You are in good company. Being a bitch to the ones we love is common amongst us women. Read on or listen to the post below. It is strange isn’t it, that Read more


“Remember that true growth is always marked by increased openness and ability to love.” David Deida

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