How to find YOU in your relationship

You can read this post or listen to it via the link below. “I feel lost in my marriage. I don’t even know who I am anymore!” This is a common cry from women in my relationship coaching office. Do you feel like YOU in your relationship? Like, really who you are? It can be…

Stop the anger. 3 ways to find more love in your relationship now.

Several years ago, I was stuck in a dark place in my marriage. Listen to the post below This darkness seeped out as anger – I would storm and bang around the house in a passive aggressive fury, without saying anything to my husband. It seeped out in my avoidance of intimacy – my libido…

Why am I a bitch to my husband?

You thought you were the only one who was a bitch to their husband? Sadly, or perhaps, reassuringly, that is not the case. You are in good company. Being a bitch to the ones we love is common amongst us women. Read on or listen to the post below. It is strange isn’t it, that…

Why do I get so angry at my husband?

What is the deeper reason that I get so triggered and angry with my partner? Sometimes our relationships (our partners) can make us feel so angry. Filled with resentment, annoyance, irritation and hateful thoughts. We wonder what is wrong with us, them….. our relationship. N.B. While this post is not suggesting your partner is a…

10 ways you could be damaging your marriage

Are you worried that you are damaging your marriage? You find yourself being mean and bitchy to the one you love. You feel stuck in negative thoughts about your partner. And you know it is not working for you. In fact it doesn’t even feel like you. Read on or listen in below. You partner…

Why doesn’t my husband make me happy anymore?

“When we first met, we were so in love. Everything was beautiful and easy, and I felt so alive. But now It feels hard. It is not that I don’t love him, it is just that… I don’t feel loving towards him” Can you relate? This is a common story I hear in my practice.…

How to feel sexy without changing a thing

Do you feel sexy? In the past I never felt that sexy. But now something has changed. In fact, at this point in my life I am sexier than I have ever been and it has nothing to do with how I look. Read on to find out what changed for me. Or listen in…

Why you need joy in your relationship

You need joy in your relationship. We all do. What happens to your relationship when you are tired and depleted. When you feel like all you have done all day, all week, all year is look after other people at the expense of your own needs? Well, you feel resentful and cranky, don’t you? And…

Don’t stress about arguing….. learn this skill

You don’t need to stop arguing – learn this one skill and your relationship will be stronger Despite what people think, it is not a lack of arguments in your relationship that makes it strong. It is what follows the argument – the repair. In fact, couples that repair after arguing are 80% more likely…

10 healthy marriage hacks for parents

10 healthy marriage hacks for parents Being in an intimate relationship long term can be hard. Hard in that, love, desire and attraction can get buried or lost in the busy ness of life, especially when you have kids. As busy wives and mums, we need all the help and ideas we can get, which…

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