Why do I feel so angry at my husband?

I’m angry because we feel disconnected On Saturday while attending a conference in Sydney, I felt inspired to pen these words on how angry it makes us when we feel disconnected and then post them to my FB group, the Unbreakable Love Community: “You can’t attack your partner into connection. It came to me that…

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Fiercely standing up for ME

Sometimes in life and love there are moments when we find ourselves in situations that are really not okay and we are asked to really stand up and fiercely protect ourselves. Whether it be at work, with friends, strangers or in our love relationships, we have all been there. From little things that feel heavy…

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Pleasure is Love

  “Why do I need pleasure?” you ask “Why not just go for coping or peaceful or something a bit less hedonistic. Isn’t pleasure a bit extreme?” My answer is no . I am talking about the pleasure that has the other name of love. I am talking about your power to increase your own inner circulation of…

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What is your favourite excuse?

What is your favourite excuse for holding yourself back from relaxing in to contentment and joy? Letting ourselves slip in to joy means opening ourselves up and allowing what is. This is not a modus operandi that we are comfortable in. We are much better at making stuff happen, being the action, doing the work…

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Recovering from sexual pain

Recovering from sexual pain – flirting with the big bad wolf   I lost my virginity, barely conscious, but with the strong memory of yelling No! and trying to shove a man off me. I was 19. It was the year after high school. I was lonely. I did really want to lose my cherry,…

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Where do you get your relationship power?


Your relationship power lies in your magnetic capacity as a whole and sensual being. We all know the magnetic powers of attraction in fresh new love affairs. The yin and the yang, the feminine and masculine. The dynamic between you and your lover is an energetic force field that at times could power a small…

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Self-love tips part four: Love that you are unique

Part Four of my self-love tips: Love that you are unique.   Spend today treating yourself like your best friend on her birthday. Love that she is unique   She is not the same as everyone else. She sees things differently. Her desires are just so unexpected. She views situations in ways that you would…

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Self-love tips part three: Let it be real

Let it be real

Part Three of my self-love tips. Spend today treating yourself like your best friend on her birthday. Let it be real If you were spending precious time with your best friend, treating her to a really special day, you would make the space for her to be authentic. You would want to hear about it…

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Self-love tips part one: Lovingly listen

Self-love series. Part one. Lovingly listen

Part One of my self-love tips.   Spend today treating yourself like your best friend on her birthday. Lovingly listen   If it were your best friend’s birthday you would take her out for coffee or a nice walk or you would sit watching the water together. You would pay attention to what she says,…

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Connecting with my Wild Woman

Wild woman

My wild woman had been calling for years. Occasionally, I let her out to dance with abandon, but mostly those times were fuelled by substances that altered my control.  In the main, I kept her bottled up by ignoring the calls to integrate her into my life. I left her buried in the depths, in…

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