How can I learn to let love in?

Let love in

Love takes a great deal of courage. When I was a very young adult, I thought all I wanted was love and I searched for it in nightclubs. Inside I felt unsure of myself {to put it mildly}. I felt unattractive / unloveable. One night in a nightclub, I found someone who was really into…

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ep17 – Intimacy triggers us with Nicole Mathieson

{Unbreakable: Episode 17} Nicole Mathieson Intimacy triggers us Today’s episode of Unbreakable is a little different. I felt the need to talk about the shift in direction for Unbreakable – towards exploring love, intimacy and relationships. To do this, I have invited back my podcast interviewing expert friend, Alana Helbig from Untangled. We talk about…

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Our culture lets us down

Our culture encourages marriage, but where do we turn if we have problems? In my marriage, there have been moments when I have felt so alone. ……..So sure that nobody else shared my problems. I didn’t know who to turn to. I didn’t know that turning to someone would really be an option. And then…

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How can I actually enjoy this holiday?

I have done all the planning, Counted down the days, Packed my bags, and done every last thing on my to-do list (well nearly), Now the only thing left for me is….. to enjoy it. So how DO I actually enjoy this holiday? This trip is something I have been looking forward to for a very…

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Pleasure is Love

  “Why do I need pleasure?” you ask “Why not just go for coping or peaceful or something a bit less hedonistic. Isn’t pleasure a bit extreme?” My answer is no . I am talking about the pleasure that has the other name of love. I am talking about your power to increase your own inner circulation of…

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Can you let love in?

Let love in

Love takes a great deal of courage. When I was a very young adult, I thought all I wanted was love and acceptance. And I searched for it in nightclubs. Inside I felt unsure of myself {to put it mildly}. Unattractive Unloveable I wanted to fit in. And I looked to the world outside myself to…

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What we really want from our men

Iain and Nic

Dear men / partners,   {psst, this is a complete and utter generalisation and will not apply to all men or women. it may apply to your partner in any shape or form but whatever the form, in my experience is still relevant} There are a few things that we women would love you to…

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How to love that problem body part

My body part

Pretty much everyone I know has a part of their body that they’d like to change. They just can’t quite seem to fully accept. For some of us it is our shape, for others it’s the dark hairs, the skin, the lump, the scar, the list goes on. This part of our body seems to…

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