Is he turning into his father?

So much tension is created in relationships over the in-laws. I often get asked to help women with ways of handling tricky mother’s in law or snoopy father’s in law. Family complications like this are not what we signed up for when we chose to spend our lives with our partners. But what can be…

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How can I learn to let love in?

Let love in

Love takes a great deal of courage. When I was a very young adult, I thought all I wanted was love and I searched for it in nightclubs. Inside I felt unsure of myself {to put it mildly}. I felt unattractive / unloveable. One night in a nightclub, I found someone who was really into…

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How to be more intimate

Intimacy

How do you become more intimate?   Does it require you to ; -be in a relationship -have erotic sex every night -be upbeat and happy all the time -be wild, brazen and out there -intensely look into other people’s eyes No. All those things are possible, but it is not the place to start.…

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Is he or isn’t he my soul mate?

Don’t let a belief in Soulmates lead you to negativity A client recently asked me if I believed in soul mates. “Yes!  I do.” I replied. But not in the same way I used to. When I first got together with my husband, I believed whole heartedly that I had found my soul mate. My…

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Your body is a messenger

Your body is a messenger. Are you hearing its call? We are pretty good at ignoring the messages from our bodies. Or is it just me? When our bodies feel uncomfortable we will often take some form of action to make them comfortable again. Generally speaking, we turn to the quickest, easiest solution available whether it be: numbing out with…

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Coming up against a brick wall

Nicole Mathieson

You might be familiar with the brick wall. The brick wall appears sometimes when you are trying to feel or explore something deep within. Perhaps you are trying to heal something or explore a part of you that feels ready. But your efforts are thwarted – you can’t penetrate because you have a big, towering…

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Change shame

I have been feeling change shame. In the last week, I have released my new branding and direction to the world.   I have changed a lot in the past few years. As a kinesiologist and life coach. And even before that as a teacher and mosaic artist. Part of me feels the tingles and…

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heart consciousness changed my life

Heart consciousness has changed my life   My relationships, My work, My direction, But most of all my belief in myself.   Because of my heart and this self belief, I am now passionate about helping creatives and entrepreneurs get clear and confident so that they share their gifts with the world.   This is…

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5 ways to call in support

  Do you have adequate support?   I am guessing that the answer may well be no. Life is moving at such a rapid rate these days, we are busy beyond compare and often need to keep numerous balls in the air for long periods of time. It can be overwhelming to say the least.…

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5 heart lessons from my holiday

I am just back from a 3 month holiday in France and the UK. My trip was a beautiful opportunity for me to give myself a break. A break in which I could truly be present with my kids, husband and most of all myself. The spaciousness of this time felt so pleasurable in my…

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